Dear
Carol,
I need some advice if that is possible. I just became
a phone sex operator two or three weeks ago and need
some help. I can get guys to pick me but I'm having
trouble keeping them on the line for very long. It's
like, one could last for 25 minutes, the next one 1
minute. I do not want to lose my job because of this
(there's a talk time quota because the guys pay by the
minute). I have a very sexy voice which attracts a lot
of the callers, but I guess I'm just not too good on
the details. Which one of your books would you recommend
to help me with the lingo I need to use and to draw
out the callers' wants and expectations? It seems that
over half of them already have a hard-on and don't seem
to last very long... HELP!!
-- Beth
Dear Beth,
First, I want you to stop worrying that you're not doing
a good job because guys come so quickly when they get
on the phone with you. Plenty of men just don't last
very long (Kinsey said the median time to masturbated
orgasm in men was 3-point-something fifty years ago,
and those fellows didn't have access to your sexy voice!).
When I worked in the peep show I noticed men spending
quality time in the cheaper porn movie booths and then
rushing over to the booth where I was waiting to talk
live (but for more money). I was puzzled by this until
I did the math; a guy could save a few bucks by getting
himself turned on before he started paying $5 for three
minutes. Many of your callers may be doing the same:
getting hot and bothered, dialing the phone, and saving
a little cash.
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